tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3042261106927311525.post5994992858477048522..comments2023-10-28T06:51:54.755-07:00Comments on Sittin On A Porch: The Good, the Bad and the UglySittinOnAPorchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13010457590403124116noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3042261106927311525.post-26797267031528871652010-10-13T12:19:06.966-07:002010-10-13T12:19:06.966-07:00Way to go Kathleen!! Wish I could have been there ...Way to go Kathleen!! Wish I could have been there to haul him bodily off of the property for you. The absolute nerve of him!!!!Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02016364556505866053noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3042261106927311525.post-76239581188777778632010-10-12T11:57:47.432-07:002010-10-12T11:57:47.432-07:00Kathleen,
I am so sorry that you had to deal with ...Kathleen,<br />I am so sorry that you had to deal with a situation like that.<br /><br />I wish you peace.<br /><br />Love,<br /><br />SBSarcastic Bastardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17116577711704241625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3042261106927311525.post-90230903662868343972010-10-12T09:33:48.260-07:002010-10-12T09:33:48.260-07:00I hope you have some peace at the end of all this....I hope you have some peace at the end of all this. It isn't the ending you wanted , but as you say, it is an ending of sorts . Your reactions were beyond admirable. Wow.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15924061349390319473noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3042261106927311525.post-87040458127533736782010-10-12T07:57:43.454-07:002010-10-12T07:57:43.454-07:00I'm glad you slapped him! A slap is not a bad ...I'm glad you slapped him! A slap is not a bad thing! It only hurts for a minute and it feels so good to deliver one! You are so strong and I think anything you do that reminds you of that is good. I'm also glad that he's gone, because you already have enough children to take care of. I love your heart, Kathleen, I truly do.Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16719394416574590978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3042261106927311525.post-25294374211746437582010-10-12T06:26:13.876-07:002010-10-12T06:26:13.876-07:00Standing up for yourself is so very important. I&...Standing up for yourself is so very important. I'm sorry that he was such an ass, and yet, you stood up for yourself in a big way, without letting it drag on. You set your boundary and maintained it. Beautiful! Sounds like you have really cut the ties this time, which must feel great. I think it was smart to let this thing come to a head and get him out of your life so you can use all your energy from here on out for healing yourself.<br /><br />Bravo!<br />xo mPetit fleurhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02626110471501778855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3042261106927311525.post-91527696050587428982010-10-12T03:31:15.397-07:002010-10-12T03:31:15.397-07:00Oh Kathleen, that was a tough few days with the ex...Oh Kathleen, that was a tough few days with the ex, but it sounds like some good closure was experienced.<br /><br />You more than deserve to be the #1 person you are taking care of these days. So glad you have good friends to come to your aid. x0 N2N2https://www.blogger.com/profile/09508740809219902631noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3042261106927311525.post-57490984060570227822010-10-11T20:23:15.973-07:002010-10-11T20:23:15.973-07:00It sounds as if alcoholism took the man away from ...It sounds as if alcoholism took the man away from you. It is ugly. I have been so enraged over things that the alcoholic did that I wanted to do harm to myself. Now I see it for the disease that it is. And I can hate the disease but not the person. I am grateful to now feel compassion for those that are sick and suffering. It doesn't mean that I want them in my house, but it means that I have compassion where before I just had a lot of anger.Sydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05642843245634635843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3042261106927311525.post-58787561146635940402010-10-11T20:02:47.618-07:002010-10-11T20:02:47.618-07:00Kathleen- your heart is so big that you have to gi...Kathleen- your heart is so big that you have to give everyone the very, very biggest chance to prove themselves. And you did that with Larry and I think that finally, you saw him for what he is now and I'm sorry you had to do that. BUT- how good it must have felt to slap him, to finally say all the words to him that you have been holding back for all this time.<br />And that part is done.<br />Let's go to the beach again soon. Okay? <br />I love you.<br />MaryMs. Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3042261106927311525.post-2235924685492868172010-10-11T18:15:31.135-07:002010-10-11T18:15:31.135-07:00I'm so sorry that you've had to deal with ...I'm so sorry that you've had to deal with all of this on top of everything else. That just plain sucks. But I'm glad that you're all right and know that you have so many people who love and admire you, ready to jump in whenever needed. As for the slap, well -- I'm thinking it was well-deserved.Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03313726816776097840noreply@blogger.com